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Does it make you feel better to blame someone else? For example, you have a really bad haircut, and you decide it?s the hairstylist fault because she talked you into it. Ok, so now you?ve correctly affixed the blame — do you still have a bad haircut? So what did it accomplish? Nothing.
Instead, consider this: You have a bad haircut because you thought this was the style that you wanted, but now you see that it?s not for you. You still have the haircut, but since you?ve accepted your part in it, it empowers you ? instead of making you a victim to it.
Being a victim to a decision emasculates you. Being a participator in a decision empowers you.
To reduce anxiety for your decisions, keep this in mind:
1. Stop looking for a prediction of the future. There?s a difference in making a decision and looking for a prediction. There is likely to be a risk in most any decision more complicated than deciding on a type of dessert.
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